Harry,

When I was doing the exercises in Section II of the Avatar Course, in particular number 5 on judgments, I found that I judged my husband for not being intimate with me in almost three years. I have stage four breast cancer and it spread badly through my body. They had to remove my left breast and I have gone back twice in these three years because of chemo. I wore wigs and Im still on chemo because tumors keep appearing. So, when I was doing exercise number 5, I felt inside that I could easily forgive my husband and stop judging him, because it is not just me going through the cancer, he was hurting too! I found not to take this personally. Im not in his feeling about all this and maybe with my change, we can change together.

Also one of my judgments was about myself. I have hated this body I walk in because of being overweight, with no left breast and after the exercise, when I felt this, I came to realize the best way for me to handle this was to do the exercise Caring for the Animal from ReSurfacing. I went upstairs and did that in the privacy of my room. I came to such a place with in me that I loved myself just the way I am. It felt like such a revelation to me. So I wanted to share this with you and to say Thank you for such a study!! Smiles,
Judy Meyer- USA