Dear Harry,

Gee- Ive been sooo competitive. I can feel how Ive wanted to get ahead, be first, win and leave everyone else behind. I have been irreverent to my connections.  Im beginning to feel how important and reverent each connection is.

Its amazing to look back on the definitions I have created around winning. I played basketball in high school and, even though it was a team sport, I had a goal to be the most valuable player and to break the scoring record. I was successful at both, which brought me lots of press and attention. I have felt a shift now as I have been coaching other people. The shift from attention on self, in pretense of being in service, to attention out on the consciousness Im coaching and in reverence for the experience. Im also experiencing a shift from not being a team player. Ive been doing it alone long enough. Ive created being an only child. My Mom always told me she didnt want other children, so I wouldnt have to share. I bought that belief and have used it for 50 years in this lifetime!

So...Im not alone. I dont have to or want to do it alone. I want to connect- to be real and to help contribute. Thanks for the tools that support these realizations. Much love,

Pam Ciganik- USA